Which resolution should I use when facts differ?

Core explainer

What are the five conflict-resolution strategies and when should each be used?

The five conflict-resolution strategies should be chosen by balancing the importance of the goal and the importance of the relationship, with collaboration or fair compromise as the default; use avoidance or competition only when necessary.

Avoiding preserves distance when the issue is low-stakes or emotions are high, Accommodating emphasizes the relationship over the outcome but can dampen innovation, Competing protects critical outcomes at the risk of trust, Compromising yields a middle ground when both sides value the outcome, and Collaborating aims for a durable, win‑win solution by integrating both sides’ interests.

When pages differ on facts and a quick, durable resolution is needed, apply a concise five-step flow: identify the discrepancy and its stakes; convene the relevant sources; evaluate claims against objective criteria; decide on a reconciled fact set; document the resolution and assign ownership, then plan follow-up to guard against recurrence. Harvard PON resource.

How does the Thomas-Kilmann model apply to fact-discrepancy conflicts?

The Thomas-Kilmann model helps decide which mode to use in fact-discrepancy conflicts by weighing the importance of the outcome against the importance of the relationship.

In practice, collaboration is preferred when durable truth and ongoing collaboration matter; compromise can work when both sides can concede and no clear winner emerges; avoidance or accommodation may be used if issues are low-stakes or time is severely constrained; the competing mode should be rare in informational disputes.

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When should collaboration be used over compromise in resolving conflicting facts?

Collaboration tends to produce more durable truth and shared ownership, making it the preferred approach when both accuracy and ongoing working relationships matter.

Use collaboration to surface interests, pool sources, and create options that satisfy both sides, rather than trading concessions that leave both parties partially dissatisfied; reserve compromise for scenarios where both sides must concede and a quick resolution is essential.

Harvard PON guidance on conflict types helps frame when to invoke collaboration versus other modes, especially for task, relationship, and value conflicts.

How do you apply a five-step conflict-resolution process to resolve conflicting facts?

Apply the five-step process to fact conflicts by: addressing the conflict openly, clarifying the issue and stakes, bringing involved parties together to discuss, identifying a solution that reconciles credible data, and monitoring follow-up to ensure durable adherence.

Link the approach to the Getting to YES four steps: separate the people from the problem, focus on interests, use objective criteria, and work together to create options that satisfy both sides; maintain fairness and ethics throughout the negotiation.

A practical example shows how a team reconciles conflicting metrics by agreeing on sources, recording a reconciled data sheet, and scheduling periodic reviews to ensure continued accuracy. Harvard PON resource.